Chance conversations, silly anecdotes, box-set recommendations and kind words are some of the treasures of office life. Without this gentle interaction, work can start to feel lonely and burdensome. Building in some happy social time during lockdown will help this informal support network continue to thrive and allow you to keep an eye out for colleagues who might be having a tough day.
Read moreWhy Don’t We Stick With Behaviour Change?
That’s the title of a terrific talk last night by Prof. Wendy Wood from the University of Southern California. An hour very well spent. Here’s the potted version:
Knowing what’s good for you doesn’t mean you’ll change your behaviour. The 5 A Day campaign launched in the UK in 2003. Awareness is great: 85% of people know they should eat 5 fruit and veg portions a day, but the consumption of fruit and veg hasn’t moved since the campaign started.
We don’t change habits because most of the time we’re not even thinking about what we’re doing. Instead we respond to cues, do what we’re doing automatically. In one study people were given stale popcorn to eat as they went into a cinema, and eat it they did - chewed through 70% of it. When the researchers tried it with people in a lab watching a film, did they eat stale popcorn? Some did, but plenty more turned their noses up. It’s all about the cues.
So, what is the secret? How can we make changes stick? Here’s what the evidence shows:
A survey of New Year resolutions found the ones people stuck at weren’t the good-for-you, ‘must exercise more’ type but the fun ‘see more friends every week’ type. Conclusion: we respond to rewards. If you want to start a new behaviour, make sure there’s a treat in it.
If you’re trying to change a long established habit, think tactically: what can you do to make that habit more difficult, more awkward, less automatic. What cues can you remove? If you want people to walk instead of cycling, lay bumps in the path. If you want people to take their cups to the kitchen and not leave them on the table, make the table tiny, and maybe a bit wobbly too.
But… it’s a complete myth you can change a habit in 21 or 30 days. It takes at least 66 days to change even a simple habit. So keep repeating, repeating, repeating.
We’d love to know what changes or new habits you’ve put in place, and how!
Download our Facilitation Toolkit
Bringing a facilitator on board to shape and lead your workshops, creative meetings and team events is a really, really good idea. It frees you up to concentrate on contributing ideas and thinking. And at a step removed, a facilitator can ask tough questions, and help you to think beyond what’s familiar. A facilitator can get you to where you need to be.
But we also know that it’s not always possible, or appropriate to bring someone in. It might make sense to facilitate your own session or ask someone in your team to take on the role.
And that’s why we’re excited to be sharing our Facilitator’s Toolkit. We’ve distilled the key to successfully planning and running a creative session into a set of 10 cards, which we still use ourselves. And now we’re making it available as a free download. Use the cards to help you plan a workshop or creative session, or turn to them if you get a little stuck. And if you want to give us feedback, we’d be delighted.
Look Up ... and Find Everyday Treasure
We've got such lovely little safe worlds at our disposal in our phones. It's hard to resist losing yourself in them when you need to kill time. Checking emails or scrolling through social media can feel like an efficient use of time, but narrowing our focus on the world is killing an important area of stimulus. The everyday treasure to be found in the world around us.
Read moreCelebrating Successful Women (and their failures) - A Blog from Leading Ideas' Wonderful Failure Night Partners at TRC Media
We asked 10 successful women working in various creative roles in Scotland to share a story with us. Our brief was simple: to tell a story about a time they had failed. We didn’t want PowerPoint presentations, microphones or philosophies, business pitches or case studies, but a true story told from the heart. We called it ‘Failing Up!’ and agreed to embrace our failures, which we often learn more from than our triumphs.
Read moreThis Woman in Business - What I'd Really Like to Say on International Women's Day
I‘m taking the chance, on a day that celebrates the strength, qualities and brilliance of women, to stand proud and not be shy and hesitant about letting people know about the great things I do. You see, in my work I teach clear communication, the importance of using simple language and being honest and direct about what you want. But I realise, I don’t always practice what I preach.
Read moreHow Ten Stories Turned the World on its Head
Last night, for just a few hours, in a cosy bar in Covent Garden, we turned the world on its head.
The room was full of really brilliant people. Friends, clients and colleagues: A crowd who have achieved great things, have qualities that we truly admire and awesome strength. Any one of them could have held court and done a pretty great job of showing off.
But they didn’t. They did something far more arresting. They talked about the stuff they’d got wrong, the failures, the blips, the uncertainties and the regrets in their lives. This was a storytelling evening in celebration of failure and the brilliant role it plays in our lives.
Read moreWith creativity, we'll thrive
The World Economic Forum’s Future of Work report cites creativity as a top 3 desirable skill for 2020. What’s interesting is how its value rises above other skills as technology becomes cleverer and more efficient where patterns and logic help in decision making. In future the ability to make imaginative leaps and break away from predictable approaches will be ever more necessary.
NESTA’s 21st century skills report identifies the skills and abilities required for work by 2030, and is even more specific. Fluency of ideas and originality are acknowledged as the abilities most heavily used in occupations which are likely to grow in future. In simple terms, organisations who aren’t investing in creativity now are missing a trick.
Three practices to strengthen your creative abilities or build a creative culture:
Be curious, and notice more;
Continually ask how could we use that?;
Embrace failure, and learn from it.
Creativity is key for resilience and growth, and there’s another powerful argument in favour. We’ve noticed that when we work with people in imagining possibilities and prodding at ideas, there’s always an incredible energy. Tapping into creativity is satisfying and life affirming.
It reminds us of what we love about what we do, and why we do it.
Seven Questions That Could Make This a Very Happy New Year
Today is that slightly tricky day for lots of us. The day after the big return to work from the Christmas break. You’ve caught up on news, cleared your inbox and now it’s time for the hard graft again. But, if you just crack on, you’ll miss that chance to stop and and consider some of your ambitions in your work life. So, before you get your head down and get to it, there’s a really simple way to reveal the challenges or opportunities you’ve got some real passion for this year. While your colleagues are still in that “fresh start – anything’s possible” state of mind, get them together and get them to answer these simple questions frankly and with passion ....
Read moreFive Quick Tips to Kick You Out of a Creative Rut
Stuck for ideas? Inspiration rarely strikes when you’re sitting at a desk, staring at a blank wall or aimlessly trawling the internet. Nothing beats getting out and about and finding delight or food for thought in the events, conversations and random discoveries the world around you offers. Here are a few tips to feed your creativity and get yourself out of a creative rut.
Read moreFace-Plants or Handcuffs?
We all love the IDEA of failing freely, but when you're right there, experiencing the very real pain of seeing things go wrong, conviction can waver. Explaining spending time and money on dead ends to hard-nosed investors or styling out public blushes in front of critical audiences calls for nerves of steel and an unwavering belief in the long term benefits of your actions.
Read moreDoes Your Business "Spark Joy"? - If Not, Maybe It's Time for a Spring Clean
Marie Kondo has a brilliant and simple core idea: you should only keep something if it “sparks joy”. Anything else, you let go, it’s dragging you down. You can’t feel happy and inspired with clutter crowding the good stuff in your life.
Read moreIn back to school season, be a rebel and undo your education
The teacher had told me she loved Izzy’s sense of humour and always looked forward to chatting to her or listening to her contributions in class. One day, during a quiet one-to-one, Izzy decided to treat this teacher to a performance of her new, favourite joke. If I tell you it involved the misadventures of a hard-of-hearing man who had somehow called his house “Hairy Bottom” and had a cat called Willy, I don’t think you need to stretch your imagination too far when it comes to the nature of the punchline. I asked Izzy, with some horror, what this teacher had said at the end of the joke. “Oh, she just smiled ….” said Izzy “I know she thought it was funny.”
Read moreWhy do we throw our brilliant futures in the bin?
About 15 years ago I considered myself to be a creative wizard. I’d recently learned the fundamental theories behind creative thinking and helping people have fresh ideas and I was all set to bring this revolution to my role as a development producer for the BBC.
Read moreHow unconscious bias affects us all
Recently I ran a workshop helping arts organisations think about the digital experiences they might offer audiences. I asked them to get into small groups, then choose one example of a real project to work on.
This all seemed to be going well. But it dawned on me that in every group it was a man whose scenario was chosen, a man doing most of the talking. Two thirds of the people in the room were women, and this was an open conference, no obvious hierarchy. And in the arts, where ideas and imagination are currency, where people love to talk, and where women are in a majority.
What do you think was going on? Did the men simply take over, did the women automatically sit back, or was something more complex and deep seated at play?
For all you restless procrastinators ... try this!
It's pretty rare that we can easily articulate what we want to achieve. Instead we often tend to feel restless. Restlessness has no focus, no goal. It's just an uneasy feeling. More specific symptoms of restlessness include:
- drifting to the fridge and eating items with high sugar content (repeatedly)
- grumpily stating you have 'so much to do' while blankly checking all forms of social media
- brooding over why nobody has recognised your true genius
- articulating (with diamond clarity) your bold plans for the future after half a bottle of wine (safe in the knowledge that you won't be required to do anything about it the following day, due to a mild hangover).
Recognise this?
So, how can we define what's niggling us and conjure up a challenge we really fancy tackling?
Read moreOne delightful question that'll put fizz into your business (and life)
All too often in business (and in life in general) we focus on the question “what’s wrong?” and then use much of our time and energy worrying over the negatives. I’m not saying there’s no value in being honest and brave when appraising what we’re doing, but fixing what seems to be broken isn’t the only way to move forward.
Read moreCan it ever be ok to treat your colleagues like 6 year olds?
A friend of mine once shared with me a parenting tip he claimed had hugely improved his sanity and temper. After years of delivering a running commentary of advice and instructions to a young son who seemed to be wilfully ignoring him, he was offered the secret to successful communication with the under 6s. A former teacher, observing a drawn out stand off over a request to come in for dinner, glibly commented that whenever communicating with a young child, try to imagine they have the theme tune to Magic Roundabout running on a continuous loop in their head.
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